for many people, long distance relationship is a very difficult thing to insist on down, others think that is normal, but if a body in which you think so, too, that means that there is a problem between you. Long distance relationships, lost in the thought of negative both suspicious and much ado about nothing. And whether you also appeared such problems, also need you to calm down.
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for many people, long distance relationship is a very difficult thing to insist on down, others think that is normal, but if a body in which you think so, too, that means that there is a problem between you. Long distance relationships, lost in the thought of negative both suspicious and much ado about nothing. And whether you also appeared such problems, also need you to calm down and think about it. Save the long distance relationship of message is also starting to find the reason, to make them interested in your hair of message, will let him reply you. About how to write after break up trying to save the SMS, and looked down.
a, long distance relationships break up reason
negative thoughts. Everyone has a different opinion on something, but the generation of differences were also more likely to let two people conflict. Perhaps because of a trivial, perhaps to show his idea is right, maybe you are not a mind level of communication, you more and more negative for each other, until you have no common topic.
the suspicion. Lost a sense of security because of the long distance to each other, the other party didn’t answer your phone or not timely reply to your message when you start thinking, & other; What he was doing, with a girl? If he doesn’t love me? … Throughout the &; Under the influence of this a series of ideas, you mistrusted each other start. But don’t pick you phone, more and more trust beginning to break, your relationship is no longer used.
much ado about nothing. As the second point, think that the other party don’t care about yourself, so in order to test their importance in each other’s heart, you have been in the framework of challenge each other (the person the principle of doing things), whereas the other thinks you are unreasonable. When the other struggling to cope with your test, will give birth to the idea of breaking up.
2, change their
set goals. If you are satisfied with life now is not, you should set a realistic goal for yourself, figuring out what we wanted to change direction. For example: the business of the state of the change, the change of the emotional state and lifestyle changes. Rational thinking seriously, can exchange ideas and more thoughtful friend, let her give you some advice. Goals must be feasible practical, fully consider the their own temperament, interest and age.
build strong confidence. Confidence must be based on a connotation, otherwise is all arrogance and conceit blindly, and connotation is to need you learn more, and read more books. Give yourself to do the shape of the change, such as sign up for a yoga class or fitness class, to shape and cultivate temperament. Skin is bad to change bad sleep, gathering information to learn more from inside to outside to improve oneself, let oneself beautiful can be full of confidence. Looking at himself in the mirror every day, tell yourself, & other; I am the best! Throughout the &; Using the subconscious to develop their own self-confidence.
action. All talk accusers, after the plan is about to start. Expand your social circle at the same time, in the life a little more interests. You might only think about how to spend the holiday with her boyfriend, weekend, etc., but to act now, change your attitude of he chases, let him have a little sense of crisis, put more attention to you.
three, after break up trying to save the message should be written
write high response rates. If the other side of the cooler at present, the other is certainly don’t want to be you can harass, then your message content can be simple and clear, also let a person easy to answer, can’t let each other feel the pressure, otherwise the other party will be very tired to you, for example, if you like the movies, you can say: & other; Yesterday I went to see the so-and-so movie, is worth watching oh, evaluation is very good, and you may find a time to have a look. Throughout the &; Such a reply message is easy to let the other side.
message content is for knowledge, not for others. Here is an example of knowledge and help others for help. & other; I seem to have a cold, can you tell me before you buy me a very effective medicine is? Throughout the &; & other; I have a cold, can you give me to buy a very effective medicine before? Throughout the &; This is a big difference between the two sentences, the former expresses you realize that you have broken up can you go to buy medicine, so I can let him back to you soon, the latter is you still rely on him, so the latter don’t send, this will let the other side want to don’t reply to you, and would have thought that if I buy medicine to you can produce cost.
content is interested in each other. With your knowledge of each other, say, & other; You like so-and-so star, ready to a concert in certain place oh & throughout; . The content must be of interest to each other, such ability can be a happy topic, and be able to let the other side can reply you.